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Monday, March 1, 2010

Pondering the Mail-Order Bride

I had another thought about Western romances.

Does the reason the "mail-order bride" plot is so popular in Western romances have anything to do with the idea that marriage is linked to civilization? In that case, marriage could be civilization, and imposing it upon two people can be likened to imposing a farm onto a wilderness, or law upon a den of outlaws.

True, the mail-order bride isn't usually forced legally to marry, but she often takes that action under force of circumstances. Circumstances, interestingly, that usually arise in the East, supposedly a place of "civilization."

Is there a subtle commentary going on here, that the "civilized" world isn't, and that the new, improved civilization is the looser, freer world of the frontier? A commentary also, perhaps, on the European historical, particularly the rigid Regency or Victorian, versus the "new" world of America?

I am probably reading way too much into this.

Related post:
The Intricacies of Marriages of Convenience.


  1. Hah! My Steampunk has a MOB! In reading through the last post on the subject of Westerns, I think the theme of redemption and resurrection is almost implicit in the freedom of the Wild West. A woman who was so desperate for a new life that she would travel thousands of miles to put herself in the hands of a stranger needs a new life, a way to remake herself.

    And it's interesting that marriage is the vehicle through which you could get that new life, whether you were back East or out in the new West.

  2. Maybe using marriage as the vehicle is associated with the novels being romances? I have a Louis L'Amour in my TBR, but don't know much about non-romance Westerns...I wonder how common the MOB plot is in those?

  3. I'm a huge Louis L'Amour fan. My dad had them all, so I gorged on them as a child. At the moment, I don't recall a MOB plot among them. A few had a very mild romance subplot. I think the most romantic of them are the two who feature very prominent female protagonists -- "Ride the River" and "Conagher."

    Yeah, I know too much about Louis L'Amour. ;)